personality | the determiner of your life

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As we know that most of the times, one’s personality decides whether if she or he deserves something or not. But what is this personality? And what does the personality mean? Normally you know that the characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving of an individual is different from each other. When one feels happy about what they do, another can’t be so due to his characteristics or feeling. Likewise there are variety of such uniqueness in this world. So this set of traits or qualities that define a person’s unique identity is what we called as personality.

Though the personality emerge from within the individual, it remains fairly consistent throughout the life. So the parents and teachers are highly responsible to develop the kid’s personality. But why? Because everyone have that duty specially to the parents and teachers for creating a better human being who can survive in the society in best way.

Is personality stable?

Sometimes you may have heard that “it takes a long time to build up a person, but just a second to break him.” This is about the personality. But have you ever checked whether this statement is so true?  It’s common to face many difficulties in life. As an example, a person who is expertized in presentation skill may face any difficulty one day at a conference. With this incident, another person says “oh my god! what a shame? Did you see? He lost his personality at the conference”. No doubt you have faced such incidents. But don’t mismatch the words “losing the personality” and “losing the impression”. Of course, Building a personality is not just an action which we can do quickly. Actually it is a long term process.  In the same way, changing or destroy one’s personality is too hard to do within a second.

Personality is ever present

Your personality is unique to you. Sometimes it may be with your skills and ideas sometimes. The way you dress, the way you behave, the way you talk also contributes for one’s personality. It affects your thinking, feelings and behavior. Personality helps you to adjust and “survive” in the society. So we can say it’s not just physiological but also psychological.

What are key determinants of personality development and differences?

Nature vs nurture

The most important thing to focus is this. Let’s focus this with an example. There is a person who is well mannered, friendly and fully we called him as a person who has a good personality. Ok! One can say that he has received this personality, because his family background has a good personalities too. Another person argues that it’s not so. He has absorbed this personality through the socialization process. So we now have a question. Is personality innate or acquired? This question is also called the nature-nurture debate.

For the above question it’s hard to give answer without thinking twice. Because one’s personality is shaped by a combination of nature (genetically determined) and the nurture (societal factors) influenced. So for one’s personality, nature and nurture contributes more or less.

There is a Five Factor Model breaks personality down into five components such as Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. These are called “big five” as it determines one’s uniqueness. Those are,

big five personality traits


The Big Five personality theory lists openness as one of the five personality traits. It shows a person’s open-mindedness. A person with a high level of openness enjoys trying new things in his life. They are creative, imaginative, and always with open-minded.

person who is high with openness trait person who is low with openness trait
  • Always try new things
  • Ready to accept  challenges
  • They are very creative


  • Does not enjoy new things
  • Such people do not want to face challenges
  • Not very imaginative


  • Conscientiousness

It is a about how a person controls, regulates, and directs their impulses. It measures person’s attention to detail, deliberateness, self-discipline, and organization. There are sub traits of conscientiousness such as Self-efficacy, orderliness, dutifulness, achievement-striving, self-discipline and cautious.

person who is high with conscientiousness trait
person who is low with conscientiousness trait
  • Spend time for more preparing
  • They try to complete the tasks with their best
  • They always pay attention to detail
  • Enjoy having a set schedule


  • They hate structure and schedules
  • Fail to complete necessary or assigned tasks
  • Do not care much if the things went wrong
  • postpone important tasks


  • Extraversion

People in the society are in two types such as introverts and extroverts. While the introverts simply like to deal more with their inner person, extroverts always try to unit and socialize with others. So the Extraversion refers to a person’s ability to be outgoing and social.

person who is high with Extraversion trait person who is low with Extraversion trait
  • They always try to talk with others, mix with others
  • They are friendly
  • like to meet new bonds
  • Supportive to others in the team
  • they feel comfortable when others are around them
  • highly socialized



  • They prefer solitude
  • They feel uncomfortable to  start conversations with others
  • thinks too much before talking
  • They don’t like to have other’s attention



  • Agreeableness

This is what we called accepting other’s ideas. A person with a high level of agreeableness in a personality test is usually warm, friendly, and tactful. They generally have an optimistic view of human nature and corporate well with others.

person who is high with agreeableness trait
person who is low with agreeableness trait
  • Dealing in a well-mannered way
  • Cares about others and their feelings
  • concern for other people
  • Enjoys helping other people


  • less in dealing with others
  • Manipulates others to get what they want
  • Doesn’t care about how other people feel
  • Has little interest or no interest in other people’s problems



  • Neuroticism

Neuroticism is the tendency to experience negative effects. Those people are pessimistic. It means they always try to see something negatively than focusing the positives.

person who is high with Neuroticism trait
person who is low with Neuroticism trait
  • This people are always with a stressful minds
  • they get upset easily even for a simple reason
  • Worries about many different things
  • Feels anxious
  • it’s hard for them  to rebuild themselves after a problem


  • they are emotionally stable
  • they can deal with stress in a better way
  • Rarely feels sad or depressed
  • Doesn’t worry much about anything
  • Is very relaxed minded




So guys, now you may have an idea of what is personality and why it is so much important to be focused. Did you find what your unique traits are? Then who you are?  And also did you find what type of personality you have? So here we recommend you the personality test. Quickly go and check  who you are, what you need to build up and what you need to give up. But  keep in mind, you are absolutely unique. And even you can’t compare yourself with anybody. So we give you a high five, keep find who you are!